4 Benefits of Silence and Solitude

Sometimes I catch myself thinking silence is not important and actually a waste of my precious time. There are always chores to do, people to communicate with and ‘busi-ness’ to busy myself with.

If life is so short, why bother sitting still once or twice a day? Why be alone if I can relate to and have fun with others? Why be idle if I can be working?

The Benedictine monks as well as the author and priest Henri Nouwen (in his book Out of Solitude*) recognized the value of silence and solitude.

Let’s look at four benefits of silence and solitude according to monks and Henri Nouwen:

Silence as antidote to impulsiveness and lack of focus

Noise spreads my focus thin, silence enhances it. If my mind is like a laser beam, I am sharper, more focused and present in and after a period of silence.

Distraction is a post-modern public enemy and we need silence as a healthy antidote, to stop the addictive yearning for always more stimuli.

“Silence requires the discipline to recognize the urge to get up and go again as a temptation to look elsewhere for what is close at hand.” Henri Nouwen

Silence as a way to my emotions and my heart

Sitting still and listening revives my strength and restores my emotional balance. I tap into new energy at the source when I find “the freedom to stroll in my own inner yard, and to rake up the leaves there and clear the paths so I can easily find the way to my heart.” (H.N.)

Silence to find order and peace, make a ‘cozy home’

Silence is a gift to myself, reconnecting to a power greater than me, someone I call God, just as the Benedictines and Nouwen do. A way of really being present.
When I am not ‘home’ in my own heart, who can I receive there?

“Slowly and surely you will discover an order and familiarity which deepens your longing to stay home”
H.N.

Silence to learn to listen

Listening to something or someone greater than ourselves  requires turning inward instead of being in a constant reactive state.
We might receive an intuitive thought or helpful guidance when we ‘just’ sit still for a while.
Being attentive to another person is another fruit I can reap from spending time in silence and solitude.

“Hearken continually within thine heart, O son, giving attentive ear to the precepts of thy master.”
(Prologue Rule of Benedict)

I’ve noticed that my habit of being still morning and evening is developing, now that I’ve grown accustomed to a big change in my life.

I love living this life, seasoned with some Benedictine flavour!

How are you doing this week, developing some Benedictine habits?

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Ester

*Full quote out of Henri Nouwen’s: Out of Solitude:

“Silence requires the discipline to recognize the urge to get up and go again as a temptation to look elsewhere for what is close at hand. It offers the freedom to stroll in your own inner yard, and to rake up the leaves there and clear the paths so you can easily find the way to your heart. Perhaps there will be much fear and uncertainty when you first come upon the “unfamiliar terrain”, but slowly and surely you will discover an order and familiarity which deepens your longing to stay home……. whenever you come upon this silence, it seems as though you have received a gift, one which is “promising” in the true sense of the word. It promises new life. It is the silence of peace and prayer, because it brings you back to the One who is leading you.” Henri Nouwen

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8 thoughts on “4 Benefits of Silence and Solitude

  1. Want to learn being ‘home’ in my heart more and more. You’r right. Who can I recieve there, when I’m not at ‘home’? Searching for “Out of solitude”. Sold out (in Dutch), also ‘second hand’. I’ve noticed you’r making progress; living the Benedictine way! Glad to read this post.

    More and more I feel this longing; to be in His presence (awesome to have a silent room).
    “It promises new life. It is the silence of peace and prayer, because it brings you back to the One who is leading you” It is, Ester. Thanks for posting!

    Peace and blessings,

    ‘DIAC’

    1. Thanks again!
      I also received some very valuable comments on my humility quote.
      Very grateful. Just got my own DVD of into great silence. Can’t wait to watch it again. It also has behind the scenes material. Cool.
      Blessings, take care.
      Ester

    2. hi DIAC, I really fell off the writing bandwagon because of my new work. It felt really uncomfortable because of feeling torn inside and having things to share but not finding time and rest to write them down. Today I make a new commitment to this beautiful subject of my Blog.

      Hope you are very well
      Blessings
      Ester

      1. Hi Ester,
        I’m very well. Thanks! How are you doing? Please don’t to feel unconfortable because of this other priority, wich I can understand. Just back from a amazing rally trough Eastern Europe. My son asked me – for the second time – to go with him and his friends. We crossed 9 country’s in 5 days with an old car (value: 500 euro). It’s called “The Garbagerun”. http://www.garbagerun.nl Amazing experience! For example; never new Slovenia is such a beautiful country! Next two weeks of my vacation will be without social media, because of a silent basic outdoor experience. I’m looking forward to your post. For me a new commitment too 😉 Like to respond in August. Have a wonderful summertime.
        Peace and blessings,
        ‘DIAC’

      2. Wow, that sounds amazing! And awesome you have such a close relationship with your son! And great idea, unplugging from social media for 2 weeks. I am looking forward to planning another silent as well! I am not so much the outdoorsy hiking type, but I love to draw, write, pray and be silent or walk through nature.

        Happy you’re doing well!

        Talk to you in August!

        Have a blessed time, Ester

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